I'd say I'm accepting applications, but, well, I'm not.

[jdotmi]

these are 21 things that i want in a lover
not necessarily needs but qualities that i prefer
i figure i can describe it since i have a choice in the matter
these are 21 things i choose to choose in a lover

How 'bout someone who is, oh, stable, has a life, isn't living out of a shoe-box and, oh, capable of being something other than a pure horn-dog?

Oh, and a lack of asshole-isms is a good thing too.

And someone who doesn't go all spastic at the thought of being touched in an affectionate yet non-sexual manner in front of other people.

Yeah, that sounds like a good start.

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I LOVE THIS POST!

[wfrezzen.livejournal.com]

I know how it is1 Hence my three part dissertation with the 51 things I learned from my marriage. Most of those things are criteria for MY future men! LOL!

[eligrrl.livejournal.com]

And gay...I know it's obvious, but don't forget gay.